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Living Inspired By Design

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Michele

joyI just wrote a blog post on how straight women like watching lesbian porn and another on living a self-actualized sex life (coming to a computer screen near you soon).  I’ve written a couple of other posts that are related to the topics of intimacy and sex but shied away from doing very much and felt very nervous about sharing my posts publicly…unsure of what others would think and how they would react.

My blog is my blog and while I know I can write about whatever I want, I also have clients coming here and perhaps not expecting to find posts around these topics.  Some might see it as a stretch given that my “day job” (I am self-employed) is all about WordPress, building a business and healing your personal life so your business can actually rock since your it is simply a reflection of your personal life.  But healing your personal life includes intimacy and sex so, to me, it fits perfectly.

Even though I consider my blog to be a lifestyle blog, meaning I blog about topics around living a specific kind of lifestyle, I’m not sure I’ve been really open as to what that means…with myself or with others.  What it means to live inspired by design is to make choices in all aspects of living that get me closer to fully engaging in my relationships with others…fully engaging in my business and with my clients…fully engaging in creating a home I love…fully engaging in what feeds my soul…fully engaging in life.  It’s about how I choose to show up in the world.  Every day.

It’s about being and feeling whole.  I have all these different aspects of myself and I’ve lived a life of compartmentalizing many of those pieces, depending on who I am around and what I am doing and, man, that’s exhausting.  It takes energy that could be spent on things I enjoy so much more than hiding.  I could go for a bike ride with my bestie (he loves that nickname, by the way) or look for beauty through the lens of my camera or cook a fabulous meal or watch my favorite show or read a really good book or chat with a friend or curl up with my cat or have some really good sex.  So many delicious options.

And good sex is part of life.  Everything in our lives is a metaphor for everything else in our lives…how we approach one thing is how we approach everything.  So we can’t be shut down around the topic of sex and expect to be open…truly open…about everything else in our lives…it just doesn’t work. Since I started sharing some of my creative musings here a few months ago (poems I wrote during a big time of transition for me), I have found I could write about these topics all day long.  Not just sex but everything indulgent in life.  I’m not talking about foolish indulgence or being glutenous.  I’m talking about engaging fully in the life in front of you.

Life is way too short to sit back and be content with a status quo life.  Get out there today and enjoy it.  Really tap into what brings you to climax (and not JUST in bed) and do more of that every day.  If you want to share something, share it.  If you want to do something, do it.  If you want to be something, be it.

And if you want to read about it, stop on my my blog cuz I’ll be writing about it more and more.

And do it all now.  Right now.  Don’t let another moment slip through your fingers.  I know that’s what I’ll be doing…living inspired by design (and talking about it to whoever will listen).

January 23, 2015 Filed Under: Life 17 Comments

About Michele

Michele Bergh is a teacher, a student and a lover of life. She is a healing artist who enjoys a variety of mediums and also has a few mad techie skills up her sleeves. By day she primarily does WordPress design and development and works with others to create a blissful life. By night, you'll find her behind a camera lens, on her bike, in a big comfy chair, cooking up a storm in her kitchen or sewing while listening to great music (probably from the 70s) on her ipod. Her greatest joy comes from living a orgasmic life by design.

What Others are Saying

  1. kimberly says

    May 12, 2015 at 7:09 am

    I just found your personal page and the first one was this one. And I just have to say, with a sigh of happy relief, that you my dear will leave this life with a little bit of fame. For all of us you’ve fostered the evolving need to open gently to the sun. I honor you… (and now that I’ve found the personal posts I’ll be reading back).

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    • Michele says

      May 12, 2015 at 10:51 am

      Thank you for your kind words, Kimberly. I will be writing more of these posts when I get a little further in my process of rebranding here.

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  2. Christine G. says

    February 2, 2015 at 6:37 am

    Great Blog Michele! Yes to writing more about what brings you a wholehearted life! I really resonated with your words and have found myself editing and/or compartmentalizing my self occasionally due to the “what ifs” and you are right, its’ exhausting. Thank you for being courageous and being you.

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    • Michele says

      February 3, 2015 at 11:05 am

      It is so exhausting. I hope you’ll join me in no longer doing things that don’t serve us well 🙂

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  3. Sue says

    February 2, 2015 at 5:23 am

    Michele,
    I totally understand how exhausting it can be to compartmentalize your life and only share parts of who you are. This effects not only those who are self employed concerned of client reaction but those of us in the Corporate world as well. It is difficult to let your ” freak flag fly” in the office especially if you are in management. It all needs to be tempered or your doomed to a trip to the HR office. ( similar to the principal’s office)!

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    • Michele says

      February 3, 2015 at 11:08 am

      Oh yes. I was there and co.pletely understand. When I tried to bring yoga to parks and receive and was accused of having crazy way out there ideas and ended up with a target on my back…all over something that is so accepted today and intended to bring joy and relaxation to our lives. It’s crazy how some things can be taken by others.

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  4. Susan says

    February 2, 2015 at 1:31 am

    It IS exhausting censoring yourself and trying to write safe. Say what you want to say and your real tribe will find and appreciate you.

    BTW, it wasn’t until the second reading that I realized you weren’t going to curl up with your cat and have some really good sex. I don’t know if I’m relieved or disappointed.

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    • Michele says

      February 3, 2015 at 11:00 am

      I feel like I have so many wonderful people around me and that makes this entire journey more fun and more worth taking risks 🙂

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    • Michele says

      February 3, 2015 at 11:09 am

      Lol who knows what I’ll do next 😉 might as well keep ya guessing!

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  5. Hema says

    February 2, 2015 at 12:15 am

    Love this post Michele. I absolutely agree. In other words don’t let life pass you by. Thank you for such a beautifully written reminder.

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    • Michele says

      February 3, 2015 at 11:01 am

      Thank you, Hema. No life passing me by…not for a second 🙂

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  6. Elda says

    February 1, 2015 at 11:58 pm

    Key words = fully engaging. EXCELLENT!

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    • Michele says

      February 3, 2015 at 10:58 am

      Fully engaging is such a wonderful way to experience life, isn’t it?!

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  7. David Ryan says

    January 27, 2015 at 5:08 pm

    I’m always and easily inspired my surroundings and also the littlest of things.

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    • Michele says

      February 3, 2015 at 1:23 pm

      The little things are so amazing. I am grateful I no longer miss these moments.

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  8. Deborah Weber says

    January 24, 2015 at 8:04 am

    I agree Michele and think it’s increasingly important that we all show up as the whole beings we are. I know it can feel tricky thinking we have to (or ought to, or probably should, or whatever terms we use) be mindful of our client base, but I believe equally important is understanding that unless we show up as who we truly are our clients don’t get to see our full light. And I want my clients to resonant with the true me, not a pretzel version of me twisted into some configuration I think will be more palatable or presentable. Here’s to authenticity and genuinely expressing our core values in every aspect of our lives AND the generosity of spirit that allows each one of us to hold our fellow humans in loving-kindness as they show up as their true selves.

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    • Michele says

      February 3, 2015 at 1:46 pm

      Yes! Deborah…you make my heart sing. Thank you 🙂

      Reply

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